My original thoughts about writing, was to probably say nothing at all. Well, being the "Patriarch" of this family, I feel compelled to say quite a few words, only as I see fit. Each one of you not only had the opportunity to know & love her, but to experience it in your own little way. She was the kind of person who constantly gave of herself, without ever the thought of getting something in return. She was a tireless, fireplug of a gal, who stood up for what she believed in & she believed in quite a multitude of things, ranging from Politics to Sports. She wore her heart on her sleeve & didn't care who knew it. She was my Doctor, my Lawyer, my Dentist, my Friend - Companion - Lover & Wife. She was the best thing that ever happened to me. She gave me "MY CHILDREN", who grew up to be exactly what I pictured them to be. Caring, fun loving people, who just simply want to "break even" in life, just as I had always hoped for. And the "GRANDCHILDREN"......man oh man, I must say......we all made some "beautiful children" & thank God, all my children did quite well on all the ones they have. Although I am very sad, lonely, confused, angry & sometimes "lost", I take much pleasure in knowing that some people never get a chance to experience the life I had with such a wonderful woman as Becky & I was very fortunate to have spent 39 years with her. Although my life with her was cut short, we lived a "lifetime" in those 39 years. Never ever taking anything for granted! Including saying the words "I LOVE YOU", every chance we'd get, simply because we meant it!! I cry each day for her (or probably me). Not all are "sad tears", but for those who know me......what else can you expect. For all of you who read this, I appreciate you taking the time to even drop by this website. I love you all!!!! Pa Ruggiero